There is widespread belief that the majority (if not all) conflicts can be resolved live. How can actually such panacea operate?
Something like this: we meet, exchange glances, smile, innocent replies, household details, we drink wine, appetizer suppressed (background – music), they give me a hug and they then disband.
Conflict disappeared? It’s just been slaked, hidden, camouflaged.
This is what I experienced when I was ‘written off’ from my fiancée’s family after his death. In my view, nothing in life is more important than not to cause pain to others and comfort those who mourn…